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Update. Appt with neuro surgeon pm. Not expectinh a cure folk. Will aim not
to bang on but youkept in touch if you can bear this. . As we have all been
saying Nugger. Feeling acceptance but the reality is not good. I know you
all care. But nothing you guys can say. But actually you have said good
stuff. Paul I and family have to get through it and we will. But double
Sending hugs and a large supply of nuggers. Will be thinking of you
this afternoon and keeping everything crossed that the prognosis and
options prove better than you fear.
Sorry sorry guys. As bad as we feared but honestly we are very accepting.
Not scared. AamaHappy lady in my life. Alert in mind. Risks of falling over
so we are doing coping strategies. All containable for now. Living and
working to live one day at a time. Look my mum developed pdementia. I would
rather this cancerous option. Our family did not handle this at all well..
Father wanted to dump on sister. My being a psycho therapist was
unhelpful. I tried to support but there wa s just too many family dynamics.
I placed myself in therapy And learned better coping and more
understanding. And other stuff..Won’t go on, you have the gist. And you
have your stories too. Its life. We just have to effing do it. Hope your
lives are manageable at the moment. Son has passed his ppll and today went
for acrobatic flying lesson grief this is not something I am calm about.
But havedutifully zipped my lip. . His wife handles his adventures better
So sorry to hear your news Bottoms. Shit happens. It happens to good
people and bad. It's happened to you. I hope your therapy experiences
continue to stand you in good stead in dealing with it.
I also hope this post sounds ok and not heartless! But I, like you, can
be philosophical about shit happening, to an extent, and it's so much
better than not talking about it. Yes trying to btclear but it’s take it
as it comes. As you say shithappens. Loving Ambridge at the momtnt.soi that’s all good.
Post tine fine
Right on there saw Ryder person visited midday ish stayed ages. All good
stuff. Feel there isgreat support. Key thing is not to sit too long. Yet
accept left legs a risk to falling we don’t sort the planned route.
Sensible stuff sister has arrived for son Patrick s grand family roast at
the plough ip in Eastbury village. His 40th birthday. He won’t forget
itwith mother pulling focus. Yes I am able to get there. Had been anxious.
But rest and walking is nuaes orders. Am sleeping well and rest fully.
Could pretend it’s just a bad leg visually. Don’t need to. I am open and
honest about this. Easier all round. And not embarrassed. My dad however
would be angryGry. furious and all sorts. So grateful my own training
required me to face up to the need to be genuine rea and stuff like that.
Was painful at times but boy does this help now. Going to trad addicts but
want a restful sleep so fresh tomorrow . Getting tired so keyboard bit
challenging. Anyway I am comfy warm and ok
BTMS - Equine Advisor Extraordinarily attention getting.